Rules You Made About Receiving (& How To Rewrite Them)

The Rules You’ve Made About Receiving (and How to Rewrite Them)

Episode theme: You can program your subconscious to receive in new, life-giving ways. Today we identify your old “receiving rules,” rewrite them, and tap them in so you can let more support, sales, and ease in—now.

What you’ll hear

  • The core prompt: “When I ______, I receive.”

  • Old rules vs. new rules (earning → allowing)

  • Why high-functioning women struggle to receive (and how to shift)

  • How letting go of tasks/identities creates capacity for what God’s calling you to do

  • Mini tap-along to anchor your new receiving rule

  • Invitations: join 21 Days, apply for 1:1 for 2026, and get on the Black Friday waitlist

Timestamps

  • 00:00 Intro: You can program anything you want around receiving

  • 02:40 The 21-Days prompt: “When I ___, I receive”

  • 06:10 Old rules we unconsciously live by (earn/prove/fix first)

  • 10:05 New rules that give life: rest, fun, being yourself

  • 13:45 High-functioning women & hidden blocks (handling it all ≠ you must)

  • 18:30 Letting go of tasks/identities to make room for your calling

  • 23:00 Ask for help sooner (and why it blesses others’ purpose)

  • 27:10 Mini tapping: soften control & open to support

  • 31:00 Your next steps: 21 Days, 1:1 2026 spots, BF waitlist

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Tap-Along Lines (from the episode)

  • Even though I believed I had to do it all, I’m willing to soften and be supported.

  • When I’m myself, I receive. When I rest, I receive. When I have fun, I receive.

  • I am rewriting the rules around receiving now.

  • God delights in giving to me; I let it in.

Journal Prompts

  1. When I ______, I receive. (What’s your current rule? What do you want it to be?)

  2. What tasks/identities are keeping me small—or simply not mine to carry anymore?

  3. Where will I ask for support this week (sooner, without guilt)?

  4. What will I do for fun/rest/being myself to embody my new rule?

Key Takeaways

  • You’ve been living by rules you didn’t consciously choose. Choose again.

  • “Handling it all” can quietly block overflow; letting go creates capacity.

  • Asking for help blesses others’ purpose too.

  • Tapping rewires your receiving rules faster than willpower.

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