Healing the Avoidant Self
A 3-Day Experience to Make Receiving Feel SafeÂ
February 2–4, 2026
You don’t want more because you’re lacking.
You want more because you’re ready.
And yet… when things start working, when support shows up, when momentum builds —
a part of you pulls back.
You disappear because receiving hasn’t always felt safe.
This isn’t a mindset issue.
It’s an avoidant part of you that learned how to protect you.
And in this 3-day experience, we’re going to heal that part — so receiving no longer feels overwhelming, threatening, or like something you have to brace yourself for.
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How Avoidance Might Be Showing Up for You
Everyday Avoidance (That Doesn’t Look Like Avoidance)
• You delay replying to texts or emails you want to respond to because connection feels overwhelming
• You cancel plans last minute — even ones you were excited about — because being present feels like too much
• You say “I’m fine” instead of asking for help, even when you’re exhausted
Relationship-Based Avoidance
• You downplay your needs so you don’t feel like “too much”
• You keep emotional conversations light so you don’t have to feel vulnerable
• You want deeper connection, but hold back because part of you doesn’t feel safe receiving love or closeness
Money & Work Avoidance
• You avoid raising your prices even though you know your work is valuable
• You hesitate to invoice, follow up, or sell because receiving money feels uncomfortable
• You stay busy with small tasks instead of taking the action that would actually grow your income
Visibility & Leadership Avoidance
• You know what you want to say — but don’t post it
• You rewrite content over and over instead of sharing it
• You wait until things feel “perfect” before showing up
Success & Expansion Avoidance
• When something good happens, you immediately move on instead of celebrating
• You tell yourself “this won’t last” instead of letting it land
• You create a new goal before enjoying the one you reached
Support & Self-Reliance Patterns
• You’d rather do it yourself than risk disappointment or dependence
• You want more ease or income, but don’t let people help — so you end up doing everything alone
Parenting & FamilyÂ
• You keep it together for everyone else and fall apart alone
• You avoid asking for support because you don’t want to burden anyone
• You push through exhaustion because resting doesn’t feel safe
These patterns aren’t flaws.
They’re protective strategies your nervous system learned when receiving felt unsafe, unpredictable, or costly.
And they can be healed.
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What This Experience Is Really About
Healing the Avoidant Self isn’t about pushing past resistance or forcing yourself to receive.
It’s about:
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understanding why avoidance formed
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building safety with the part of you that learned to pull away
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expanding your nervous system’s capacity to stay present when good things arrive — and allow more in
Because you don’t need to try harder.
You need to feel safe staying…
and safe allowing more.
What You’ll Walk Away With
• Clear awareness of how your avoidant self shows up — and what it’s actually protecting you from
• EFT tapping sessions that release fear, pressure, and emotional overwhelm around receiving
• Nervous system and identity shifts so you can stay present with success instead of bracing for it
• A new inner relationship with the part of you that pulls away — so you can receive more
(money, love, support, ease, opportunities, visibility)
What’s Included
âś… 3 Live Classes / Trainings
âś… 3 EFT Tapping Sessions (replays included)
âś… Replay access
Dates & Times
February 2–4, 2026
🕙 10:00–11:00 AM PST
Replays will be provided if you can’t attend live.
Investment
Early Action Rate: $222 (available until December 31)
Standard Rate: $333 (starting January 1)
✨ Wildly Wealthy Woman Experience members:
This experience is already included inside your portal (a $333 value).
This Is For You If…
• You’ve healed a lot — and still notice yourself pulling back when things expand or start getting good
• You know you’re meant for more, but part of you doesn’t feel safe being fully seen or allowing yourself to have more
• You’re tired of doing everything alone
• You’re ready to receive from a regulated, grounded, supported place
• You’re a healer, therapist, or coach who wants to understand how avoidance may be silently impacting your clients’ success
FAQ
Do I need tapping experience?
No. You’ll be guided step-by-step.
Can I join if I can’t attend live?
Yes. Replays are included.
Is this only about money?
No. This work supports receiving across your entire life — money, relationships, support, visibility, rest, and ease.
Where do I access everything?
Inside Kajabi. You’ll receive instant access after checkout.
Ready to Make Receiving Feel Safe?
Many people spend years in therapy, courses, or coaching trying to “push through” patterns that are actually protective.
This experience focuses on healing the root, not managing the symptom.
That’s why this is a 3-day intensive, not a lecture series.
This is the same depth of work I offer in my private sessions — where a single 1:1 session is valued at $1,200 — made accessible in a group experience.
